tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post1199028655889304404..comments2023-08-26T20:46:05.406+05:30Comments on Neglected Serendipity: Do I deserve pink chaddis?Ketanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comBlogger115125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-41428308760461440642009-10-02T04:02:55.249+05:302009-10-02T04:02:55.249+05:30@ Jack:
Thank you sir for your views! :)<b>@ Jack:</b><br /><br />Thank you sir for your views! :)Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-88967970609185042232009-09-24T13:32:06.256+05:302009-09-24T13:32:06.256+05:30Ketan,
Navigated from your comment in my post. Ho...Ketan,<br /><br />Navigated from your comment in my post. How to dress or put on what kind of clothes in individual's choice but it must be guided by few factors - it should be appropriate to the occassion, it should not hurt someone's sentiments and it should not attract undue attention for being indecent. The last point may be debatale as indecent for one may not be so for other. For this I have just one indicator, would you like to see someone wearing such dress in presence of your parents, wife, sister or children? If the answer is NO then it is indecent. <br /><br />Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-75939710757729004292009-09-14T13:43:02.027+05:302009-09-14T13:43:02.027+05:30Hello Sakura,
Did you read the disclaimers in the...Hello <b>Sakura,</b><br /><br />Did you read the disclaimers in the post properly. I've clearly stated that what irked we was not that she was wearing a Western dress. How more clearly could've I stated that fact than <i>'I'm no fan of conservation of Indian culture'</i>?<br /><br />No one would draw my attention for wearing simply western dress (am from Mumbai). The post was about the exposed flank and peeking elastic band, which on the basis of circumstances (which have inadvertently got discussed in comments) led me to conclude was done deliberately.<br /><br /><i>"(thinking) Beyond what is needed"</i><br /><br />Just like in case of clothing, can other determine what degree of thinking is optimum and what is not? How nub<br /><br />You say, you don't care much about dressing sense, but the girl in the post did! She was always very meticulously dressed. Even on that day!<br /><br />No, the impact of what girl did wasn't much. Just that I did a blog on it, makes it seem so. If you're arguing that the girl did not intend to draw attention, then I can accept your argument, and be neutral about that girl. But if you tell me, she precisely intended to gather guys' attention and girls' envy, then there's be a certain basal leve disrespect that I can't help, unless and until I totally change my ideals, and become an entirely different person believing in <i>all show and no substance</i>. But till I become that sort of person, this is how I will keep on judging people!<br /><br />If you feel after so much interaction with me that it's <b>only</b> dressing that I'd base my impressions of others on. If I happen to interact with that girl, my impression will keep on changing depending on what new 'data' I get to draw conclusions from. This is <b>just a very flimsy impression</b> I'd drawn.<br /><br />If you tell me people never do things purely to attract attention or make others envious, then, I'll have to tell, you've not seen enough of the World. And if you say, there are such people, I'll ask you what are their signs and symptoms?<br /><br />Remember, I judge people just like this in other aspects of life, too, not just dressing.<br /><br />If you've time, please go through following posts:<br /><br /><a href="http://ketanpanchal.blogspot.com/2009/05/my-morality.html" rel="nofollow">(click)</a><br /><br /><a href="http://ketanpanchal.blogspot.com/2009/04/pride-arrogance-rudeness-etc.html" rel="nofollow">(click)</a><br /><br />Thanks for your feedback. I was curious about yours! :P<br /><br />TC.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-23113165628522048782009-09-14T09:01:26.028+05:302009-09-14T09:01:26.028+05:30ignore the "I have" it was error :P
cia...ignore the "I have" it was error :P<br /><br />ciaoDistilledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026823491857221294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-75137329780809059722009-09-14T08:59:19.336+05:302009-09-14T08:59:19.336+05:30Damn!! So much of discussion for THIS????
hahahaha...Damn!! So much of discussion for THIS????<br />hahahaha..<br /><br />You know most f girls here are traditional.. but those who come from outside they are bit more flashy than those who have stayed here. Guys here are 'disgusted' by them. <br /><br />I don't quite see why they should be? I mean it is okay to get knocked out, it;s ok if you can't bear and take eyes off, but why the heck should you stretch the things beyond that is needed, it anyways shows your mentality...<br /><br />If I am more comfy in jeans and go to a area where salwar kameez is worn. and I wear my usual stuff to work because I am used to it, will it be my intention to catch attention. Nah. I don't think so. And why should I care. about such superficial matters as dressing sense and pay heed to buying off salwar suits. In my view, wearing jeans is absolutely fine.<br /><br />You have thought just too much of it. Just the fact that the dress of girl made Sooo much impact on you shows that YOU pay heed to such stupid things.<br /><br />Dresses are subjective things. If a american lady comes up in something even more revealing then you would be even more disgusted?? You shouldn't n can't judge anyone by dresses.<br /><br />I wear my usual blue jeans and one of the 2 T shirts most of the time. others pay more attention to their dresses. am I showing off or are they?? If I am, then should I do more of show off to NOT show off? I can't do so. I am comfy this way. n they won't be comfy my way.<br /><br />n yea, girls often dress in girls hostel, wear make up and party. for their own fun... there are no boys there either. sometimes you just enjoy dressing and looking eye catching.<br /><br />I have <br /><br /><br />Pink Chaddis well you don't deserve as long as you don't cause trouble to girl. I don't think the girl will care so much as to THINK what you are thinking to send you Pink Chaddi. <br /><br />I find guys who stare funnily at skin teases of girls for a moment or two more moral than those who rant their mind off about why did she, what is her character, she shouldn't and How I felt disgusted. the thing these things just don't deserve so much attention as given, and THEY give it. :P<br /><br />eitherways, I end it here. <br />too much of talking on my part on rather irrelevant subject.Distilledhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15026823491857221294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-69758197433229174302009-09-04T19:26:54.680+05:302009-09-04T19:26:54.680+05:30Hello, Rocksea!
And welcome to blog!
Thanks for ...Hello, Rocksea!<br /><br />And welcome to blog!<br /><br />Thanks for your <i>"wow!"</i>. That was much needed.<br /><br />I'm happy you could make out that this all was after all just a sham! I was practicing <i>blogging-blogging</i>, other respondents were practicing <i>commenting-commenting</i>!<br /><br />But, I'd have been happier had you read the post!<br /><br />Thanks!<br /><br />Take care.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-55548670543262613652009-09-04T18:14:48.269+05:302009-09-04T18:14:48.269+05:30wow... such a long writeup and a lot of discussion...wow... such a long writeup and a lot of discussion and comments on someone wearing some dress... <br /><br />I guess if one likes what he saw, he look for more of it... after all it was supposed to be seen. Almost all girls know how and what they are wearing. If one doesnt like what he saw, just look away... Does it need such a long, serious discussion, especially when you don't know what kind of a girl she is..?rockseahttp://www.rocksea.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-28122865836588799222009-08-30T14:52:09.958+05:302009-08-30T14:52:09.958+05:30@Anrosh:
"PERIOD"
QUESTION MARK<b>@Anrosh:</b><br /><br /><i>"PERIOD"</i><br /><br />QUESTION MARKKetanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-50338502155336471762009-08-30T08:26:09.041+05:302009-08-30T08:26:09.041+05:30you have articulated your thoughts when you saw a ...you have articulated your thoughts when you saw a part of the female body that you did not like - and you are making certain assumptions.<br /><br />you didn't harm the woman wearing the dress - that's all it matters. you have the right to think what you think as long as you did not harm her - PERIOD.anroshhttp://thetwentysecondline.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-70593030864905331842009-08-29T21:27:03.473+05:302009-08-29T21:27:03.473+05:30Hello Anrosh, and welcome to the blog!
If culture...Hello Anrosh, and welcome to the blog!<br /><br />If culture has played any role in making me think on those lines--it is this: of defining a 'baseline' for how the majority of people I know conduct themselves (in this case, dressing). Anyone who behaves quite 'away' from the baseline attracts attention. This would be think of the reasons behind departing from the baseline--whether it be <i>under</i>dressing or <i>over</i>dressing.<br /><br />If a girl wears saree in a college on just one day, where everyone else would be wearing shirts and jeans would also make me think of the intention behind doing that.<br /><br />If you go to a government office where everyone is rude, inefficient and corrupt, except for one employed who does his job dutifully, with courtesy and utmost ease, the person will definitely come to your attention. It'd make me think what made him better (depart from the baseline).<br /><br />But, it's not cultural <b>conditioning</b> per se that's played much role 'cuz that's never shaped me in an immutable fashion as yet, otherwise, I wouldn't have been an atheist!<br /><br /><i>"to each, their own"</i><br /><br />Where have I violated that principle in my post? I've not suggested her parents 'regulate' her behavior, not said that I'd harm her in any way. I didn't even 'gossip' about it! Just like how she's a right to wear what she desires, do I not have a right to draw conclusions from her behavior (choices she makes in context of environment she lives in)?<br /><br />Thanks for your comment!<br /><br />Take care.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-68130942294586835672009-08-29T20:35:47.855+05:302009-08-29T20:35:47.855+05:30didn't culture and stereotypical biases and pr...didn't culture and stereotypical biases and prejudices form part of your assumptions? i am sure it did ?<br /><br />Was she on a date with you ? No<br /><br />To you it looks disgusting, to others it may not.<br /><br />to each its own ketan -anroshhttp://thetwentysecondline.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-45013137438160741462009-08-29T04:24:31.344+05:302009-08-29T04:24:31.344+05:30@sm:
Welcome to the blog!
I agree, and felt even...<b>@sm:</b><br /><br />Welcome to the blog!<br /><br />I agree, and felt even before you pointed out that <i>"everyone has a right to choose what to wear"</i>.<br /><br />People have many other rights, too like right to speech, right to earn, right to pick their nose in public, right to not cover their mouths while coughing/sneezing ('cuz it's not illegal!), right to gossip, right to spread rumors, etc., some of which are even endorsed and enforced by the Constitution of India.<br /><br />But, do I not have a right to draw (somewhat intuitive, but possibly, logical) conclusions from how people (ab)use precisely those rights?<br /><br />Take care.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-37753594870759642972009-08-29T03:10:35.996+05:302009-08-29T03:10:35.996+05:30everyone has a right to choose what to wear.everyone has a right to choose what to wear.smhttp://realityviews.blogspot.com/2009/08/india-who-made-indians-beggar-british.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-62242616482899704302009-08-27T01:12:16.157+05:302009-08-27T01:12:16.157+05:30...And, I don't think you want to do that.
I&......And, I don't think you want to do that.<br /><br />I'm not so impactical so as to suggest not getting angry even when those irritating elements would actively bugging you, but at least don't think of them when you're 'away' from them--their influence. This 'away' applies to both space and time. By space you must understand what I mean (geographical distance), and by time I mean whatever is past, and is not going to come back to haunt you, unless and until <b>you</b> allow it to haunt you.<br /><br />And lastly, Vishwas, quite contrary to your fear of my taking offence, I value the fact that you cared to do a re-check on one of your actions to ensure it didn't hurt me, otherwise, you must be aware as well as me, if not better, that some people say such things with sole intention to hurt.<br /><br />Unfortunately, I've to write such intensely personal comments on such a public forum only because I don't have your email ID! Mine is <i>panchalkc@yahoo.co.in</i> :)<br /><br />And wishing 'happy cramming' is like saying 'bon appetit' to someone on hunger strike! Outrightly sadistic! :(<br /><br />TC.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-83192762003017199332009-08-27T01:10:51.816+05:302009-08-27T01:10:51.816+05:30Arrey Vishwasji, you can take even greater liberti...Arrey <b>Vishwasji,</b> you can take even greater liberties than that. I absolutely don't mind!<br /><br />I've never denied the fact that my hairline is receding! Why would I put that pic otherwise! If you don't mind and are on Orkut, you could add me from <a href="http://www.orkut.com/Main#Profile?uid=7820896858209556714" rel="nofollow">my profile (click)</a>. If that doesn't work, simply search for 'Ketan feels', and go to the first result. There, you can find the most updated status of my hairline! Also, you'll find pics of times when my hairline had been in a more desirable position, of course, with better hair density.<br /><br />But I can see, you're very likely to say, "I'm not into networking sites; am not on Orkut, but am on facebook!". :P<br /><br />Yes, looking forward to more posts from you, but again, without anger, but pure insanity.<br /><br />Let me give you some food for thought [take your pick--dosa, chicken, samosa, or whatever you want!].<br /><br />Can we roughly define 'hatred' as a feeling where you want the person you hate to stop existing? Instantaneously? The manner in which you might want them to 'stop existing' would be not hatred, but vengeance. Would the best way to hate someone not be to have nothing to do with them? Wouldn't they be so lowly that they won't deserve any of your emotions? So, when you hate certain people, and keep on thinking about them (even in their absence--when you're out of <b>their</b> sphere of influence) by way of hating them, are you not actually making them a part of you life?<br /><br />The best way to hate people is to have so much contempt for them that you wouldn't like to waste even a single thought, single emotion, shingle moment on them! Sic.<br /><br />Think about it, if someone after spending, say a year with you says--they 'hated' you for your intolerance/rigidity (just totally imaginary attributes; bearing no relation to my impression of you), you might find it unfortunate if you feel there's a misunderstanding, or may end up hating them in return. But wouldn't it be infinitely more humiliating to hear "Oh Vishwas! I never noticed him! He was so unimportant, so impotent as a person to have made any difference to my life! He was so <b>beneath</b> me, he never mattered! He was nonexistent!" Think about it, the second thing's much more humiliating.<br /><br />Of course, you can't be angry and detached at the same time! Just trying to point out that even when you're angry with someone, you're actually sharing a part of <b>you</b> with them!...Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-44030444082355849982009-08-27T00:35:35.640+05:302009-08-27T00:35:35.640+05:30Thank you, Ketan for those thoughts. Your comments...Thank you, Ketan for those thoughts. Your comments always give me reason to think further.<br /><br />It actually made me want to list the reasons I even write a blog:<br /><br />1) To seek encouragement, advice, criticism, help with my own writing.<br />2) To find like-minded people or people from whom I can learn something so I can implement it myself.<br />3) To improve my thinking processes and refine my words and language so it becomes acceptable and interesting for others.<br />4) I cant restrain my writing, if I do I feel stifled. Writing in a blog just feels better becoz it gives me perspective and release.<br /><br />I think we all do it to attract attention to ourselves (here, I mean attention as in notice from people, nothing more). Otherwise, there is no point writing in a space that others can access which is why I beg my best friend to make his blog public. :)<br /><br />This post really gave me lots to think about in general. Thank you. :)<br /><br />Oh btw, I'm emailing you, so look out for my email.Tangled up in blue...https://www.blogger.com/profile/09863311350462955038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-36062480416410296562009-08-26T21:29:54.988+05:302009-08-26T21:29:54.988+05:30Ketan
Phew. That was such a relief! I eagerly rep...Ketan<br /><br />Phew. That was such a relief! I eagerly replied to the comment when I got back home and patiently waited for a while only to find out you were replying to others but not me! It made me feel so bad you know..I almost wanted to end my miseries..[God don’t I sound like Karan Johar? Lol] Anyway just kidding! Yes yes glad for me I drowned in the sea of your wisdom the very first time I read your blog! Lol Oh please don’t deny the fact that your hairline is indeed receding. But gracefully and wisely of course! Lol Lucky you actually, my hair is thinning right on the top of my head! Lol How I wish my hairline too receded gracefully like yours! Lol Ok I’ll stop rubbing it in before you curse my already thinning hair! <br /><br />I understand now why you replied to others and not me! Lol Yes they are awesome and I stand by what I said! <br /><br />Good you should perhaps concentrate on your academics instead! :P <br /><br />Meanwhile, I’m still chalking out the boundary of my next post! I’m suddenly finding myself extremely sarcastic and insinuating! Somehow, I do not end up insulting or hurting anyone! So I’m working on those lines. So do keep an eye on my blog! :P Lol<br /><br />Happy cramming!<br /><br />Cheers,<br />VishwasVishwashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935779598858991579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-76471530020170261702009-08-26T14:53:56.665+05:302009-08-26T14:53:56.665+05:30Hey Vishwas, there was nothing in what you said th...Hey Vishwas, there was nothing in what you said that offended me, truly. If I've been so introspective of life, on the whole, my receding (nonexistent?) hairline is a truth I've come to accept quite wholly. I don't mind if someone points to that. But if someone considers me a lesser human on that account, I'd honestly pity them for not knowing the ephemeral nature of hairlines! ;) And of course, also pity them for not getting to drown to death in the sea of my wisdom! :P<br /><br />Actually, my gprs had not been working at my hostel, and was replying only to those comments that needed 'urgent' responding. Your comment had not qualified for that only because our conversation had become less and less relevant to this post, which is something I don't mind, but *had* to counter more serious allegations than that of my posts being "awesome" as alleged by you! ;) Thanks!<br /><br /><br />Also, this period allowed me to concentrate real hard on studies in my attempt to become less dark a medical sheep! :)<br /><br />I'd be going slow on blogging, anyway, though.<br /><br />Happy vacationing!<br /><br />TC.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-87004398411306141912009-08-26T13:42:27.887+05:302009-08-26T13:42:27.887+05:30Ketan,
I am praying I didn't cross any line w...Ketan,<br /><br />I am praying I didn't cross any line when I replied to your comment!! If I have, then I sincerely apologize for it! Hope you accept my apologies! <br /><br />Cheers,<br />VishwasVishwashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935779598858991579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-49513882019735883292009-08-26T04:03:42.214+05:302009-08-26T04:03:42.214+05:30...For a change, it required me more than 5 min to......For a change, it required me more than 5 min to explore and organize all those thoughts! Yes, the hatred was quite instantaneous, but a response that I quite habitually give to all acts of seeking <b>indiscriminate</b> attention. Just that I decided to think about it this once.<br /><br />3. "I seek to attract attention". TUIB, you've to judge for yourself if you attract attention from <b>just about anyone</b> or from those who you value for some reasons. Second, do you desire that attention for something you 'do' or something you're endowed with 'naturally' (without your conscious choice and effort)? Third, would you do that in a sly fashion--an example from blogosphere would be to want praise for your blog/language/intelligence (sincere praise as well as insincere) by blogging about ideas that just don't matter to you on <b>pretext</b> of raising awareness on 'social issues'? If you'd actually do it, your <b>act</b> would earn my contempt (sic). But that would not leave out the possibility that I'd actually admire your skill at articulation. Just that I'd start valuing it much less than below--quite similar to not valuing much style against substance. Of course, the issue for you would be whether to stop attracting attention in aforementioned ways as that would make me (someone you might value) look down upon you, or actually realize your folly and stop being that way, or use your right of volition to continue to use your right to expression the way you 'choose'.<br /><br />Lastly TUIB, just because I write such posts doesn't mean I've never fallen in trap of populism. I too might have in the past, I might in the future, too. But at least, each time in the past, I've tried to be honest enough with myself, and <a href="http://ketanpanchal.blogspot.com/2009/05/my-morality.html" rel="nofollow">the contempt I would develop for myself (click)</a> would be my punishment, which if you can understand, is the worst one could inflict on oneself.<br /><br />4. Lastly, there's a very subtle issue of chronology, viz., the desire to act in a certain way preceding or succeeding the desire for that act to be praised. :) I hope you get the drift. If we're dishonest, we can always argue for the former before others, but can we really fool ourselves? ;) (I wish I could :( )<br /><br />Thanks for taking this discussion several notches higher, i.e., into the depths of axiom-like prejudices of our (<b>my</b>) minds!<br /><br />TC.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-73835344323981838662009-08-26T04:01:35.251+05:302009-08-26T04:01:35.251+05:30TUIB,
I'm glad you've brought the issue t...<b>TUIB,</b><br /><br />I'm glad you've brought the issue to where it rightly belongs--my mind, not society or the length of her dress, or various statistical possibilities of her doing it casually.<br /><br />At various points in my comments above, I've made certain clarifications, and they might be pertinent here:<br /><br />1. There's an issue of attracting attention. Though, I've not made the distinction very clearly in my post or in my comments what I hate is not seeking attention. But I hate it when:<br /><br /><b>a.</b> done dishonestly, as in, in a sly manner, rather than directly. 'Sly' is different from 'subtle'. The former is under the pretext of doing 'something else'. As in the example of this girl, eating her food, studying, talking to friends, but all the while also thinking (or maybe, only thinking), if others are noticing how boldly dressed she is. 'Subtlety' involves drawing inviting in such a manner that it doesn't become obligatory on the 'invitee' to pay that attention, but only intimates them of the desire of their attention. And also, subtlety usually involves a certain degree of ingenuity. <br /><br /><b>b.</b> that attention is drawn indiscriminately from <b>just about anyone</b>. I, for instance, ask you to read certain posts of mine only because in my interactions with you, I've come to value your intellect, analytical power, honesty and manner of expression.<br /><br />Thus, I seek appreciation from only those who I value (and not the converse, as in I value only those who praise me ;) ). At this point if you ask me what's so great about seeking approval from a select class as against from the 'masses'? Or if, why should quality (who values me) matter more than quantity (how many value me), I'd have no real answers! I can come up with artificial reasoning like it's the 'quality that's more effective than quantity' or some such crap, but the fact would be that's just my prejudice. Because of some reasons (I've not explored completely), that's how my value-system has got shaped.<br /><br />2. "ur unconscious mind hates attention-seekers <b>too</b>"--TUIB, this post is <b>only</b> about my having attention-seekers, and <b>nothing</b> else! But I hate the act of seeking attention in context of other 'riders' that go with it (explained above in this comment itself as well as in what follows)....Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-44983641001506543032009-08-26T01:12:06.984+05:302009-08-26T01:12:06.984+05:30I'm off to read ur story now..please read mine...I'm off to read ur story now..please read mine and tell me what u think..i really value ur response. ;)Tangled up in blue...https://www.blogger.com/profile/09863311350462955038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-54944375680201122112009-08-26T01:10:27.653+05:302009-08-26T01:10:27.653+05:30Hey Ketan! :) I'm glad for that..I see the luc...Hey Ketan! :) I'm glad for that..I see the luck seldom works for me tho' I always get the worst examiners in the vivas..;)<br /><br />I read ur post..very interesting, I must say.<br /><br />I personally think the way u reacted says more about u than it does about anything else.<br /><br />My point earlier, with my brother's glorious Miami example was, that there are places where women show skin for the very obvious reason of attracting attention but maybe people are so used to it now, that paradoxically, it doesnt really seem to affect them at all.<br /><br />And also, let me warn you..I seek to attract attention, too..albeit in a very different manner..I prefer to write to attract people to my ideas..:) I see nothing wrong with the woman's behaviour.<br /><br />But let me tell you one thing I noticed about you. Your reaction was instinctive and instantaneous. After spending all this time analysing it, you understand why it was so. And if u have no problem with seeing 'skin' shown without ulterior motive..that means ur unconscious mind hates attention-seekers too..obviously becoz u wudnt have put up all these arguments to urself in the span of a millisecond, right? :)<br /><br />I did read the response u gave to uncommon sense, but then again I considered it not mentioning, becoz again, it says more about u than anything else. :)<br /><br />This was all very interesting. Thank you for all the intellectual stimulation. :DTangled up in blue...https://www.blogger.com/profile/09863311350462955038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-31162870804400799932009-08-26T00:23:08.665+05:302009-08-26T00:23:08.665+05:30Hi TUIB!
Your comment proved to be very lucky for...Hi TUIB!<br /><br />Your comment proved to be very lucky for me. For so many days, my gprs hadn't been working at the hostel where I stay, and today it started working.<br /><br />I think why I responded to that girl in that particular way could be better understood if you read <a href="http://ketanpanchal.blogspot.com/2009/04/pride-arrogance-rudeness-etc.html" rel="nofollow">this (click)</a> post.<br /><br />Also, you didn't respond to my comment above. Hope, if any misunderstanding you had about my post has been clarified by now. Also, did you read my response to uncommon sense to his point about kind of people the girl would've liked to attract?<br /><br />Going over you your blog! :) TC.Ketanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02622410643454108685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1117433809983410591.post-55412475021008419212009-08-25T13:38:57.775+05:302009-08-25T13:38:57.775+05:30You have been tagged on the topic 'Fast Furiou...You have been tagged on the topic 'Fast Furious and Danceable songs'<br /><br />Destination InfinityDestination Infinityhttp://destinationinfinity.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com